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How to Win the Heart of a Dominican Woman

Click BUY NOW above to purchase Please email cerisefairfax@gmail.com with your order confirmation How to Win the Heart of a Dominican Woman Written by Cerise Fairfax TABLE OF CONTENTS Chapter One Winning Her Heart Chapter Two Faith & Spirituality Chapter Three Family Oriented Values Chapter Four Music & Dance Chapter Five Culinary Traditions Chapter Six Resilience & Strength Chapter Seven Pride In Appearance Chapter Eight Body Confidence & positivity Chapter Nine Daughters Dating Foreigners Chapter Ten Frequently Asking for Money Chapter Eleven Stereotyping & Assumptions Chapter Twelve Does She Truly Love You Chapter Thirteen Taking Her to Your Country Chapter Fourteen Marrying Your Dominican Woman INTRODUCTION A Dominican woman can be one of the greatest achievements in a...

Watch What You Say

Are you spending time with people who use negative words, put themselves and others down? If so take a good look at them. Not to judge but to analyze. They most likely look empty, perhaps even lost. Now look at a person who uplifts. Look at their appearance, you may see a glow around their aura, radiance in their eyes, and joy in their laughter. Take a moment to listen to the words you use. Are they uplifting you and others? Sweet words add joy to your soul and good vibes to your life. Don't say "I can't." say "I'm capable." Words have weight and one word at a time you will reshape your reality from sh!tty to sensational. Love Cerise Fairfax

Happy Thanksgiving Canada

Happy Thanksgiving My Canucks! Although I don't indulge in the Canadian holidays much in the past years, and even though Thanksgiving still holds merit to remind us about being grateful. Canadian Thanksgiving, celebrated on the second Monday in October, is a national holiday that gives thanks for the harvest and other blessings of the past year. The tradition has Indigenous roots, as First Nations people historically held celebrations to mark the end of the harvest season. The modern version also reflects European harvest festivals, particularly from English and French settlers. Key Themes and Traditions: 1. Gratitude: It's a time for Canadians to reflect on the good things in their lives and express appreciation. 2. Family Gatherings: Families often come together for meals, reconnecting with loved ones. 3. Feast: Traditional Thanksgiving meals include turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, pumpkin pie, and seasonal vegetables. 4. Nature and the Fall Season: The t...

Promise For A Better Day

In the name of Creation and all that's beautiful and peaceful I rebuke liars, dividers, gossipers and bitterness. I live to be a reflection of love, peace, inspiration and joy. To embody the grace of all things good is my desire. This week we embark upon a new month. With it we have an awesome opportunity to retreat from negative self-talk and trade it in for self-respect. We also have the power to treat others the way we wish to be treated. To everyone; take advantage of time, not people. Give more than you take. Take only what you need. Extend kindness and discard cruelty. Do not allow mean minded people to infect your mindset. Turn away from toxic drama. Energetically remove yourself from situations that are poisonous to a loving heart. Treasure the fruits of the spirit: Love, joy, peace, goodness, kindness, faithfulness, and gentleness. Remember that we don't know what others are enduring each day, and they don't know what is on the tablet of your...

Don't Forget Your Surroundings

Surround yourself with goodness and love. Take in each moment and cherish the positive vibration. This will help you later when you need a positive memory to get you out of an emotional rut.

Jealousy

As a Soul Coach quite often during my sessions with clients who are in turbulent relationships very often the chaos is due to jealousy. Jealousy destroys deep love connections. When one of the partners, sometimes both, don't deal with their past trauma and/or insecurities they sabotage what could have been their soul's love connection. I'm a Soul Coach. I help individuals and couples to get past their negative thoughts, actions and reactions. If you're in a situation where you need to deal with issues give me a shout. We'll do a 30 minute session or a 60 minute session and untangle the discord. WhatsApp Messenger (829)702-7726 or email cerisefairfax@gmail.com

Be A Prayer Warrior

1440 Moments today

Today: Take any moment from today to appreciate life, to not get upset, and to express understanding. You have 1440 moments today to choose from. Love Cerise Fairfax

The Past Does Not Define You

Soul Coach Tip: The past does not define you. It's true that it helped shape you. Nevertheless, it does not dictate your future. You could be born in a barn, in a bed made for an animal and still become the owner of the land and the castle too Hold your head up, chest out and soldier on. Love Cerise Fairfax .

The Why Is Not Important

Message: Some people will read your online posts and chew it up with attempts to bully you. Why? Because they want to stir up strife? Could it be they think they're perfect? Well, in all truthfulness, "why" they do it isn't the matter. The thing is, they may be addicted to drama, perhaps they stew in anger, who really knows? What we do know is this, they have very little peace in their mind because if they did have inner peace they wouldn't attempt to bring unrest to your day by brutalizing a simple post.. Ask your questions, express your concerns, and share your thoughts on your posts without fear that goofs will try belittle you. Because you are entitled to post what you like! And especially if you're attempting to help someone in need.

Anxious Much?

Message: If you are sad you're living in the past. If you are anxious you're living in the future, if you are at peace you are content with the now. Let go of the past because it has left you. Stop entertaining the future because it could fool you, live for now and be satisfied. The now is temporary and every situation will change at any moment so be fluid and go with the flow.

No Regrets

Life could have been different, but that doesn't mean it would have been better. Love Cerise.

Nobody Can Fix You.

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Ditch them if they don't support you

If they don't respect you, believe in you or support you they are not about you and don't care about you. They don't want you to win! Don't lose with them. Cut them loose.

Erosion of Self Esteem

MONDAY'S MESSAGE To prevent the erosion of self esteem reinvent yourself. For some of us a monotonous cycle can take a toll on us. That's why we must always refresh our life. Take a free course online, join a new group, pick up a new interest, focus on health. Get a new hairstyle, a new wardrobe. Even more extreme; go for that new job, move to a new place, seek a brand new circle of friends, sell your stuff and jet around the world, or live off the grid. This will help to enhance your self worth and increase your quality of life. Resetting your mindset resets your entire existence. Love Cerise Fairfax

Be Clever

Many people give up too easily. They think if something is difficult to achieve, it's better to forget about it. However, that's a grave misconception in most cases. Often, it's the best experiences in life that may give a challenge at first. If you're a CLEVER person, then rest assured that you are a problem solver. Instead of giving up, use your determination to battle the challenge, and you will WIN! Have an amazing Saturday. Love Cerise. #selfcare #selfimprovement #determination

Compare Yourself To You

Most times social media is a collection of carefully selected photos and videos. Often the people in those photos and videos are not happy inside. Instead of comparing yourself to those chosen photos and videos compare yourself to the best you that you want to be. You shouldn't question your worth. You should question your current position in life and if it's bad or chaotic then make the steps necessary to find harmony. Actively seek environments that can help you grow. Change your social circle, meditate, journal and respect the pursuit of virtue. LOVE Cerise Fairfax Your comfort is key #selfcare #selflovematters #soulcoach #virtuecoach

Problems Turned Positive

Look at problems as chances to learn. Through being a problem solver every problem will move you forward and enhance your knowledge. This will eventually increase your value. So, embark upon every day with this mindset and every perceived setback will be a setup for positive growth. Love Cerise

Pay Heed

Discernment

Monday Message Holy Spirit, on this day bless each and every person with the will to fall in love with who they are. Give them power to forgive those who have hurt them, and last but certainly not least, shower them with the discernment needed to walk a path of righteousness. Love Cerise.

Love Outweighs Evil

The Accuser Will Fall

God never gives up on you. Even when you've lost yourself, experienced trauma that has changed you, have been shunned by your family and friends, God is with you. You might have made bad choices, didn't do what you were supposed to do, or perhaps did too much. Stop allowing the internal or external accuser to keep you down and allow God to lift you up! Now is your time to rise. Say it with me, AMEN Love Cerise Fairfax

Your Lose Will Be Your Gain

Release Your Blessings

Do something kind today. When you give from your resources, time, or love you create a positive energy within the universe that will release your blessings, too. God honors sacrifice. Paying it forward pays you too. -Love Cerise Fairfax #GodIsGreat #youareblessed

God Is 10 Steps Ahead

Monday Message God is 10 steps ahead of you straightening out your path. Even if you feel lost weak and without faith, never fear because you are still in line for your blessings. And they will be showered upon you in a way that you will be abundantly satisfied. Say to yourself, and say it out loud, "My time for happiness and peace is upon me. I am blessed most miraculously." When you own that, you become that. -Cerise #goddaytoyou #godlovesyouunconditionally #godsloveisreal. #inspiration #lifehack #livingood #takecontrol #havefaith #godisgreat #love

It is Yours

Claim It Today

You are about to encounter a fresh start. Where fear will not affect your life. Monotony of the everyday will no longer get you down. Pain from feeling lonely or lost relationships will not hold you, your mindset or your emotions back. This brand new start will renew your mindset, freshen your soul, and get you started on a fabulous new path. Claim it todayYou are about to encounter a fresh start. Where fear will not affect your life. Monotony of the everyday will no longer get you down. Pain from feeling lonely or lost relationships will not hold you, your mindset or your emotions back. This brand-new start will renew your mindset, freshen your soul, and get you started on a fabulous new path. Claim it today

Swift Kick

We all get hard on ourselves at some point in life. Sometimes a swift self-kick in the butt to do better is ok while at other times it's a tiresome battle beating up on yourself. Sure, kick your butt and get moving but don't beat yourself down into the ground. We are all filled with fault and fabulousness and we use each one interchangeably. Today may be a day filled with fault finding and fault doing, and tomorrow filled with fabulous findings... Take the good with the bad and make the best if it. #GODmorningMonday

You Are No Less

Show me a person without a relationship to the Creator. They are not evil. They are not mean. In fact just because someone has a bond with God it doesn't make them better or perfect. We are all God"s creations and our beliefs don't make us more or less in the eyes of the Creator. Our beliefs help us to appreciate the tough road we just crossed and have faith that we'll cross the next tough road ahead. Believing in God is like sitting on a chair with a cushion. It makes things feel more comfortable. If you don't believe in God you will still have life and quite possibly enjoy it but it will be like eating a delicious meal without the ability to enjoy the true taste. God adds flavour and spice. God is the essence of everything. Just because you choose not to draw near to God it doesn't make you less of a person. Moreover, without a friendship with God, you may still appreciate the moon an...

I Woke Up

I woke up, I have food, I have a great dog, I have a comfortable home, I live around good people. My bills are paid and I'm able to celebrate my life. I have wonderful people in my life. I have my five senses and the sixth sense of good intuition. I laugh at myself because I accept that I'm not perfect but do my best to improve myself daily. I enjoy my business and have awesome clients. My relationship with God is the most important connection I have. I want to take this moment on this day to say I am at peace with who I am and will continue to morph more into the person I will become before my time has come to pass in this lifetime. MONDAY MESSAGE? BE CONTENT, BE THANKFUL, BE YOU.

When You Pray

When you pray, do it with the faith that your prayer is answered as soon as you ask. Don't wait for the blessing, then express gratitude. Be thankful upon prayer. You don't knock on a door thinking nobody will answer. You knock with the faith that it will be opened. Being thankful in the present shows you have faith that once you knock for opportunity, the door will be opened to present a world of opportunities you never expected. Love Cerise Fairfax

When Bad Gets Worse

Today's message. What you tolerate is what you validate. Sometimes in life we're afraid to speak up. Sometimes it's shyness, often it's because we don't want to stir up strife, but one of the biggest reasons is because it's easier to ignore it. Don't ignore something that needs to be addressed. Bad only has a chance to get worse when good turns a blind eye for even just one second. Stand up for what's good, don't fall down protecting the bad. Love Cerise.

Destruction, Dissatisfaction and Discomfort

Love is the force behind creation, satisfaction and comfort. Hate is the force behind destruction, dissatisfaction and discomfort. I choose love! Why? Because creation is growth, comfort is contentment, and satisfaction is achievement. To grow and to be content with what you have achieved is not only self-love, but love in it's fullest embodiment. May God bless you right now at this very moment with the inspiration to create, the wisdom to appreciate what you create, and peace to be comforted by it Love Ceruse.

Aim High

You are the arrow. Your goal is your aim. To get where you want, aim high and don't allow distraction to deter you. Stay focused. You're worth all that you want.

A New Leaf

While we enter the last stretch of 2023 let's keep focused on life goals, self-care, and service to others. As long as you are striving to get farther than you were last year while taking better care of yourself, and helping others, you are moving ahead. Even if you are on the last part of this life's journey, sick and shut-in, with no friends or family, and life is closing in on you, you are still reading this and that means you still have time to think beautifully and encourage others. Let's complete this year and turn a new leaf with the new season. Let the old go and prepare for the new year. Love you, Cerise.

Walk Away

There will come those days when your emotions and mindset will be tested and tormented, possibly by people online whom you don't know or by the people you love most. When you encounter those moments you must draw upon the shield of wisdom and remember to stand up for righteousness. Don't lose yourself so far into an unimportant argument if you are merely arguing with fools. especially don't get lost In the Heat of the Moment if you're home, health and honor are not being compromised. Love Cerise Fairfax

Change

Today's message The only way you can change life is if you change yourself. Taking Things personally? Change that by not being overly sensitive to rude, inconsiderate or ignorant people. It's best to recognize the situation as volatile and don't allow your emotions to explode in the process. Giving too much and receiving very little in return? Change that by giving with no intention to receive. Universe will reward you for your kindness when you need it or least expect it. Finding the wrong partners and always ending up in toxic relationships? Change that by paying attention to the negative signs. Many of us meet the wrong person. However, it's when we allow deep emotions to grow with that person, even when we are aware of the red flags, that we allow the unhealthy roots to grow. Do not attach your energy to them. Cut the connection quickly and keep it clean. Don't allow emotions to get things murky and confusing. There may be things you like about them, and th...

Visualize Your Future

Today's message Don't beg God over and over. Place your prayer with confidence and wait. Envision your life with the prayer answered and the visualization will come true. Remember; Prayers are often answered when we least expect it and in the least expected way. Love Cerise Fairfax

Brain Love

For you! Our mental conversations attract the course of our lives. What we think about, how we think about our past, and how we think about our future is powerful. But it's how we speak to ourselves that brings the thinking into reality. Our imagination is a tool to build us but many people through unhealthy self-talk use it to break themselves down. The imagination is a machine that spits out what you feed it. If you think everyone is laughing at you, you will feel everything laughing at you. If you think your partner is cheating on you, you will feel vulnerable, and to some degree, even shameful that you're in a relationship of insecurity. As a Mindset/Soul Coach, I encourage my clients to increase mental control so they can embrace healthy emotional thoughts. It's your thoughts that lead you, that show on your face, in your actions, and also pave your future. Speak good and positive thoughts to yourself. When painful memories intrude on your positive thought pattern, d...

They Are Not Your Person

Relationship 101 You know they're not good for you but because you've had good times together and you are seemingly compatible you choose to make groundbreaking attempts to alter the impossible and make it possible to be together. You have FAITH that the person could somehow miraculously be the one. So you ignore better judgment and push past the red flags to commit to each other. At first, it feels awesome. Then within a short period, although you start to see their unlikable traits surface and it turns you off, you turn a blind eye. The more they turn you off the less you can push their actions aside and so you say something with the hopes they will understand and change. They do understand and they agree to change. You see signs of change. You are thrilled and once again you believe this impossible union can break the chains of doubt. Time passes. Once again they cross a line that most would agree is questionable. You talk to them about it. They see your point and t...

The Plan vs The Process

What you want is there for you whenever you want it. You must be disciplined and patient. Most people think that with a plan and positive thinking the blessing will unfold automatically. And although planning and positivity are part of the process, they are more the start of the journey. The process is; a plan, belief in the plan, mini goals for that plan, discipline to comply with the goals, flexibility to alter the plan when some of the goals don't fit, and of course patience. I know, believe me, I know what it's like when you make a plan, put your heart into it, and work diligently on it only to have it grow slowly or halt altogether. It's even more disheartening when you had some great upside success and then with no rhyme or reason the downside begins. That too is sometimes part of the plan that you didn't prepare for but you are strong enough for. So don't give up. You had what it took to create it and you have what it ta...

Fall Into A Pit

Today's Message You may have someone plotting and planning against you. Speaking badly about you, or even creating lies attempting to tarnish your good name. A court case, a job issue, a housing dispute, a relationship concern, backbiting friends, and the list goes on. This concern could cause you to feel anxiety and may even create tension in your life. When you feel you're at your lowest, and you fear the enemy will win, remember this Bible quote; "A foolish man will dig a pit for someone to fall into, but trip and mistakenly fall into the pit themselves." That means any person who is trying to set you up to fall will fail. The power they think they have is only power enough to harm themselves... Do not fret, do not fear, do not allow your mind's imagination to get wild in thought. If it was your last day of life, would you allow that person to affect you? Probably not. So live the rest of your days doing the same. Love Cerise....

To live is to learn

Today's Message Although perfection sounds good in theory, in practice it doesn't make sense. We will never be beings that can ever attain perfection. As long as we are living we are learning and as long as we are learning we are changing. If something is perfect it never changes because it wouldn't have to if it's perfect. So be easy on yourself, and be easy on others. Allow change and transformation to happen and don't stop the process of becoming better because you're too stubborn to accept you'll never be perfect. Love Cerise

Three Men Story

Imagine this, three men were building their homes. Man one had all his supplies and a professional crew to help him build. Man two, and Man three had limited supplies and no crew. One day Man One had his house half built. Man three could see the house was going to be huge. Man, two didn't notice because he was working so hard on his house that nothing could take his focus from it. Man Three was watching Man One build his house one day and he saw the granite counter and tiles that Man One had imported. He looked at his own and felt his counter and tiles were no longer as nice. Man Three said to Man Two "I'm selling my tiles if you want to buy them, I'll give you a discount." Man Two was ecstatic and said "Yes! " because he was working day and night he was running out of tiles for his second room. The day came when Man One was putting the roof on his huge house. Man, Three ran to get Man Two to watch with him. "Man Two, come watch this show-off, ...

Lockdown Is done so is the hate

IMPORTANT The world as we knew it locked down and not only did it shut us out from normal living during that time, it also, in some people's lives, shut them out from the family and friends they so dearly loved. When the world changed over those confusing couple of years, so did a lot of relationships. Family and friends who were once very close became separated and singled out. They argued and some even fought over who was right. At this point, now that the world is healing, and back up and running, perhaps it's about time for us humans to do the same. I encourage you to reach out and contact the person who persecuted you, or you persecuted. If you were anti or for it, it doesn't matter now. Making peace is possible and for some of us, it's essential. The division of the world was not our doing, nevertheless, we indulged in the pain and calamity as if it was the last days on earth. And although some of us felt it was their last day, was it right to fight even if...

Being A Better You

Trying to become a better person? You must do the following every day. Even these three iconic figures had to live each day keeping in mind the importance of Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control. Living without the focus on every one of these actions, Jesus, Dalai Lama and Mother Teresa would not be the respected figures they are. When you make these nine words part of your character traits, you won't have to try to become better, you automatically will be better. It sounds easy, right? Not really, it is difficult because reactive emotions can override any of them during any situation. This is why the key is to keep them tattooed on your mind at all times. Before reacting think first about which of these nine fruits of the spirit can be used during each situation. This is TODAY'S MESSAGE

Took his life but not his advice

They say he took his life before his advice, yet his advice was golden, so why did he not take it? Well, the truth is, maybe his advice was for you and not him. His name is Anthony Bourdain. His advice was "Eat at a local restaurant tonight. Get the cream sauce. Have a cold pint at 4 o’clock in a mostly empty bar. Go somewhere you’ve never been. Listen to someone you think may have nothing in common with you. Order the steak rare. Eat an oyster. Have a Negroni. Have two. Be open to a world where you may not understand or agree with the person next to you, but have a drink with them anyways. Eat slowly. Tip your server. Check-in on your friends. Check-in on yourself. Enjoy the ride." So, Today I will eat at a local restaurant, at a mostly empty place. I will order a meal I haven't tried before. I will eat slowly as I edit my book. I will then message someone I haven't spoken to in a while. I will remind myself that I am ok with who I am, and enjoy the ride. TODAY'S...

The Energy Of A House

THE ENERGY OF A HOUSE A messy messy house is not a happy place to live, it has negative energy and people who live there will be affected. Disorder gets in the way and stagnates, making it very difficult to continue on our ways. The stress of searching for stuff causes anxiety, depression and confusion, hence the importance of throwing away or donating what we no longer need to give the house a new look. Your home is a reflection of your life, and that implies everything: physical, spiritual, emotional, labor, social and family. Always remember that there is a place for everything and everything should be in its place, this helps to be in harmony and results in a better flow of energy. You must clean house and get rid of or reform everything that does not make us feel good, to make room for the new. We shouldn't accumulate things, but rather remove from home everything that doesn't contribute, that doesn't work or that you don't like anymore. By getting rid of things t...

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