Ask yourself if what negative words you're speaking about someone else is worth the karma of it happening to you, too.
You see, what we say about others always has a ricochet effect. What goes around comes back around.
So, if you're unnecessarily trashing someone just to have a conversation, even though it might seem meaningless to you, it is meaningful to the vibrations around you.
The vibrations of your words are alive. Everything has its own source of energy, even words. In fact, it's the most negative words that can do the deepest damage and not only for the ones you're attempting to defame, but also to you, too.
YIELD before involving yourself in a life altering conversation that has no positive value to your future.