Sunday, June 28, 2015

SOUL COACH TIP::: LOST CAUSE VS LACKS CONFIDENCE



They may both start with LC, lost cause and lacks confidence, but that is the only similarity they have. When one lacks confidence it simply suggests that the person does not have the much needed belief in their ability to achieve what they desire.
Most times the individual who lacks confidence will sit and wait for what they want, and in many cases it does not come. On the other hand, there is the odd occasion that miraculously what they want does land in their lap, and even though they lack the confidence to actively get it on their own, they are still wise enough to recognize the blessing and snatch it up when it is handed to them.
Nevertheless, that does not mean they are okay just coasting through life waiting for the the best of it to happen on its own, because the fact still stands that they need to muster up some courage and believe in their ability to grab life by the tassels and own it.
Now on to lost cause. Those two words should never be used when describing a person. I've heard the expression many times in the past when people would say for example "oh he's just a lost cause" when referring to a person who they felt didn't have a chance at all, as if the person was on life support and brain dead.
Even though I heard the expression many of times before I never really took in the meaning of it until the other day when I was with a client and she called herself a lost cause. Why did she say that? Well she's 60+ years old, does not feel attractive, never did feel attractive at any time during her life, 20 years ago was divorced and has been single ever since, and she is severely shy when it comes to men. Her shyness is what causes her to lack confidence and now has manifested extreme loneliness within her.
For the last year she has been reading my DATING UPDATES and has thought about contacting me for advice on dating because she doesn't just want to give up, but she also lacks the confidence to boldly go for what she wants. So finally she decided it was time for a coaching session and booked an appointment. Usually I speak to clients via phone, Skype or Google video hangout, but because her computer skills are not too tech savvy and her hearing is not great when it comes to phone conversations she requested an in person meeting. We met at the Citrus Grand for an hour session and during that time, for a good 20 minutes she just kept beating up on herself.
I cut her off and let her know she is not a lost cause and by contacting me she was removing the lack of confidence that was preventing her from finding love, and was creating a deeper sense of confidence.
After our session she  left with a better grasp on how to handle her love life and how to find herself a date, however, I was left with the feeling that nobody should ever call themselves or others a lost cause. As long as you are living and healthy you have the ability to confidently achieve what you want within reason.

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